​In elementary school, I always wanted a BFF (best friend forever), like many of the other girls in my class seemed to have. To share feelings and secrets with. To play with after school. But I lived way out in the country and had to ride the school bus home every day, and so I missed out on all the fun the other kids had.

 

In high school and college, I yearned for a steady boyfriend. But, in high school, I was never asked on a date, and in college, I never had more than a couple dates with any one guy.

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By the end of college, it seemed like all my friends were getting married. I wanted that kind of relationship too. I married the first guy who wanted to marry me.

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He was tall and handsome, and we shared a spiritual bond. But he was also a drug addict and alcoholic, and he was in and out of prison during our marriage. Life was scary. I couldn't leave to protect myself, but I left to keep my baby son safe.

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But I still wanted that love relationship. And I wanted to forget that the first marriage had happened. So I married again, a few months after my divorce was final. He kept me from feeling alone. He treated his friends badly, and soon wasn't nice to my son, either. Or the son we had together. Another marriage that I wished would not have happened. This time, thankfully, I didn't stay in it as long.

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I heard that divorce took people an average of two years to recover from, so I refused any dates for two years. After two years, the first guy I dated had lots of problems. My man-picker was broken. So I went another two years without dating. 

 

I became more selective of men I dated, but still picked men who weren't able to love me for who I was. I stayed a single mom for 16 years. 

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I lived to be the best mom I could be for my boys, and I took care of myself spiritually, mentally, and physically. And though I was happier for most of those years than I'd ever been before, and made much better choices for my life, but I didn't know anything about inner healing. I didn't take time to find why I'd had anorexia, and heal the fear and sadness I'd felt all my life. 

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As years passed, I came to appreciate that being single or married both came with pros and cons, but I wanted that loving relationship I hadn't been able to find yet. So, I made a list of what I wanted in a man, and set out to find him. At the top of my list was that he love God, or Source, as much as I did. 

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We found each other! He adores me for who I am, and supports me in all I want to do. We've had a very close relationship for nearly 17 years now. 

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But after a few years of marriage, my dad died. I blamed myself, and others blamed me too. ​I felt separated from family and friends. I had a very stressful job, and my brain stopped working right. I hated myself when I was asked to resign from my job. 

 

We moved to an off-grid homestead in the middle of nowhere, starting from scratch. Physically, life was hard. But it was hard emotionally too. My husband and I began bickering every day...I worried about a third divorce. 

 

I felt I had nothing, except too much time to mourn my father, regret the past, miss my children, and worry about not having enough money. I didn’t want to live anymore.

 

​My relationship magic was scraping the bottom of the barrel again. All I had was a life full of lack because I had a mindset of lack. 

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I vowed to get my marriage back to the loving relationship we'd had before, and to get rid of the fear and sadness I'd had all my life. 

 

So we moved to the house with the ley line vortex.

 

I learned about biofield tuning. I learned we are made of light particles, and that the space between all the particles of light is spirit - we are made of spirit. ​

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My ancestors started coming. I realized I was made of them, and began to heal them to heal me. 

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​​The magic of our ancestral patterns - and our own old patterns - create the patterns of our health, emotions, and relationships. Our magic - the spiritual energy of our biofield and of the universe - must be changed before our mind and body can be free to heal. 

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In clearing my ancestral patterns, I came to love my ancestors. And, I began to love myself enough to take care of my mind, body, and spirit. 

My relationship magic grew; my husband often said, "I really like the new you!"

 

​We are made of the light and spirit that all the universe is made of! We can have the magic of spirit - the mindset of true wealth, abundance, success, and prosperity that is not limited to money - and learn to integrate those energies with our own energy. We can live truly magical lives!

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​Changing your magic - how you integrate your energy with the energy of the universe - changes your life, and that of your ancestors and your children.

 

As I cleared ancestral patterns for myself and my clients, I was shown there are 5 steps to fully integrating the magic of the universe in our own lives.

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And, I'd love to share those 5 Steps with you....